I've been in a stable and happy relationship for 18 years. I mostly work alone and at 47 I don't go out much and am mostly sheltered from temptation...
On my latest job I've been working closely with a very attractive and exceedingly charming designer. Did I say attractive and exceedingly charming? When she turns her smile on me and puts her hand on mine my will power is sucked away and I totally forget about the job at hand . My mind is filled with useful stuff like: "that scarf really sets of her eyes" , and, "She smells wonderful"...
How do you married guys deal with this? I have a couple more jobs to do with her and the (cold) shower isn't functional yet on this job. Self flagellation?
On my latest job I've been working closely with a very attractive and exceedingly charming designer. Did I say attractive and exceedingly charming? When she turns her smile on me and puts her hand on mine my will power is sucked away and I totally forget about the job at hand . My mind is filled with useful stuff like: "that scarf really sets of her eyes" , and, "She smells wonderful"...
How do you married guys deal with this? I have a couple more jobs to do with her and the (cold) shower isn't functional yet on this job. Self flagellation?
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